When Jesus saw his mother standing there beside the disciple he loved, he said to her, “Dear woman, here is your son.”  And he said to this disciple, “Here is your mother.” And from then on this disciple took her into his home.

Individual Reflection

Prayer of Preparation

Heavenly Father,
I offer you my life today. Help me to slow down and listen to You. Please speak into my very being whatever you want me to hear today and transform me more into your likeness from our time spent together. Help me to be obedient to follow through with whatever you ask of me.

Statement from the Cross #3

…He said to his mother, “Dear woman, here is your son,” and to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” John19:26-27

Thoughts of a Fellow Sojourner

     What causes a person to risk his or her life to help someone else? As I watched the news about the bombing today, I was heartbroken as I the thought about all the people that were impacted by this tragedy. My eyes were flooded with more devastating images than my mind could process. But, then I saw them. Right there in the middle of the chaos, there were a couple of people, normal ordinary citizens, who couldn’t just run away without helping. When everyone was being told to leave the area in case there were more bombs, these two people stopped to help the injured. The image that caught me was when they both took off their jackets to either help prevent shock or possibly bind up a wound. No matter the case, these two people gave hope in the midst of tragedy. But, I bet if you asked them, they would say that there was no other option for them. They had to help because something inside them drove them to help. That something inside is called “compassion.” The Greek word for compassion,splankna,actually refers to being moved by a situation or circumstance from the center of our essence. In other words, compassion is that feeling in our gut that drives us to care for others in need.
     Even as Jesus was hanging on the Cross, he was moved from the depths of his being to care for his mother. In spite of his own anguish and pain, he was filled with compassion for the woman who had been chosen to give birth to him and then raise him to adulthood. As she stood watching his crucifixion, Jesus spoke words that would place her under the care of one of his closest friends. What she heard and experienced was compassion.

Moment of Reflection

Take some time in silence for reflection, meditation, or simply to listen to what God wants to speak into you.

Prayer of Consummation

Lord Jesus,
Even while hanging on the cross, abandoned by those You came to save, Your compassionate hand never ceased in reaching to those in need.
Take some time in silence for reflection, meditation, or simply to listen to what God wants to speak into you.

Written Response

Close your time by writing to God a response or plan for application.
Thank you Jesus for Your unfathomable act of compassion on the cross.
Teach us how to show Your compassion to others;
Lead us where Your compassion is most radically required;
Open our eyes to whom we may reach out Your compassionate hand to in our very lives this day;

Individual Reflection

Lectio Divina:

1. Read John 19:25-27 slowly a few times (Lectio)
25 Jesus’ mother stood near his cross. So did his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Cleopas, and Mary Magdalene. 26 Jesus saw his mother there. He also saw the disciple he loved standing nearby. Jesus said to his mother, “Dear woman, here is your son.” 27 He said to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” From that time on, the disciple took her into his home.
2. Ponder the text (Meditatio)
  • Who really is my mother?
  • Who really is my brother?
  • What does it mean to have a new family in Christ? What is my place in this new family?
3. Speak to God (Oratio)
Make Colossians 3:12-14 personal:
Therefore, as God’s chosen child, holy and dearly loved, I will clothe myself with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. I will bear with my Christian brothers and sisters and I will forgive whatever grievances I might have with someone. I will forgive them as the Lord has forgiven me. And over all those virtues I will put on love, which will bind us all together, as one family, in perfect unity.
4. Find a quiet place (Contemplatio)
  • What grievance do I have against another that I need to let go?
  • Who is hurting in my church family that I need to go to and love?
  • Who outside my church family needs the love and compassion of Christ?
Speak Lord, for your servant is listening.

Individual Application



     Compassion is what drove Jesus to earth. His compassion for the world and everyone who has ever lived on it. He knew we were separated from God by our sin, but through the compassion in his heart, he set aside everything he had to come and die a death that he did not deserve. Compassion is the reason Jesus was on earth, and as his disciples we are called to carry on that same ideal.

Items needed:

A person in need of compassion


     We all go through life and a lot of us have the same routine everyday. Sometimes we get so much into the routine that we don’t see what’s actually happening in the world around us. Almost every day, we walk by people in need. It could be a homeless person on the street or the single mom who works three jobs to feed her family. We all know someone in need. Today, ask God to open your eyes to the people in need around you. Then, as he opens your eyes to them, do what it takes to show them compassion. Don’t worry about the factors involved. Just do what you can meet their immediate needs as you show them the compassion of Jesus.

Individual Prayer Guide

John 19:26-27 — “When Jesus saw his mother standing there beside the disciple he loved, he said to her, ‘Dear woman, here is your son.’ And he said to this disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ And from then on this disciple took her into his home.”
     Compassion and relationship was part of Jesus’ nature. His whole life spoke of compassion, whether he was healing the sick, touching people suffering with leprosy, or playing with children. Jesus was able to find a way to have compassion, no matter who he dealt with. That being said, it is no surprise that in this account from the gospel of John, Jesus uses some of his last minutes of life to extend compassion upon the most important woman in his life. If Jesus had died, his mother Mary would have been elderly, poor, and unable to survive. With what little strength he had left Jesus took compassion on her and made sure she was taken care of. We can even take this a step farther and say that Jesus‘ entire life was an act of compassion. He was God incarnate, God in the form of a man, He was God extending compassion to the entire world. His entire life was an expression of it and as a result, if we follow him, it should characterize our lives as well.


Relationship was a driving force behind Jesus’ mission in the world. Some would even say it was the driving force. Where is compassion in your life? What motivates you to compassion? Have you ever felt compassion? This prayer is one way of exploring the impact of compassion on your life.
  1. Sit in silence. Focus on the idea of compassion. Pay attention to how it makes you feel. Comfortable? Uncomfortable? Scared? Sad? Hang on to that emotion.
  2. Acknowledge God’s presence. Thank him for joining you and for the compassion he extends to you daily.
  3. Ask God what role compassion should be playing in your life. Do you need to have more of it? Do you need to extend it to a specific person? Is there a specific way God is moving you towards compassion? Pay attention to whatever comes to your mind first. Trust your Gut.
  4. Now ask how God might have you show compassion in that particular situation. When something comes to mind, write it down and run with it. Jump off the bridge and see what happens.
  5. Ask God for the grace needed to embrace compassion in your life.
  6. Sit in Silence for a moment. As you go embrace compassion, be ready to go and use it to make the world a little bit better place.

Individual Reflection

Lectio Divina:

1. Read Romans 9:36-38 slowly a few times (Lectio)
36 When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. 37 Then he said to his disciples, “The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. 38 Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.”
2. Ponder the text (Meditatio)
  • Ponder God’s compassion on your life
  • How do compassion and harvest tie together?
  • What other words jump out to me?
3. Speak to God (Oratio)

Everyday someone is dying,

Everyday someone feels loss,
There’s news of a disaster, 
Someone’s spirit has been crushed.
Our Lord does not need headlines
To tell Him what to heed,
He sees the solitary
And knows their very need
He sees the mother crying,
Are heard before they’re said,
He feels the hearts, afflicted,
By sadness, pain and dread.
This all-caring Father
Full of mercy, depths of love,
His very nature is compassion
To the many, to the one.
Linda Owen
4. Find a quiet place (Contemplatio)
Be still and listen for God’s voice
What is He saying to me about compassion?
Who is God calling me to have compassion for today?
Speak Lord, for your servant is listening.

Individual Application



Today you’re going to be extending compassion to someone in a little bit different situation.There may be people in our life whom we deem un-worthy of compassion. It might be someone who only thinks about himself or herself, or maybe someone we see as “lazy.”  More than likely, each of us has people we choose not to engage or even to avoid.  Ask God to help you see who these people are and to see them the way he does.

Items needed:

A person who we see as “un-worthy” of compassion or a person who appears to not need it.


Today’s challenge is too engage and extend compassion to someone who you may think doesn’t necessarily deserve or need it.

Group Study

How’d It Go?(In groups of 2-3)

How did you get to apply what you learned about redemption this past week?

Warming Up

  • Can you think of a time when you felt compassion for someone?  If so, share about it.
  • When you see a person who is hurting emotionally or physically, how does it make you feel?

Digging In

…he said to his mother, “Dear woman, here is your son,” and to the disciple, “Here is your mother.”-John 19:26-27
Jesus’ first two statements clearly revealed His divinity — His power to forgive sin and to grant eternal salvation. His third statement reflects His humanity. As fully God and fully man, Jesus’ concern for Mary was not just as a Savior, but as a son. His compassion for His earthly mother reminds us that Jesus also cares for our well-being and direction in life, even when we don’t understand God’s plans. And as Jesus asked John to care for Mary, He asks us to care for others on His behalf.
  • What thoughts or feeling do you suppose Mary was having as she stood nearby watching her Son be crucified?
  • Why do you think John was at the cross with Mary?
  • Why do you think Jesus gave John the responsibility of caring for Mary, instead of one his brothers?
  • What does this intimate encounter teach us about compassion?
  • In Matthew 12:50, Jesus says, “For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.” What do you think He meant by this?  Was he saying that families no longer matter?
  • What does this statement reveal to us about God’s heart for the family?
  • How should this impact our own personal family relationships?

Take It Away

For next week:
  • How can and will you begin putting what we have learned into practice this coming week?

Close in Prayer

Take turns praying for one another that God would break our hearts for the things that break His and give us compassion for others that He causes us to notice.


We want to hear your thoughts as you join us on this trail.